Saturday, 18 October 2008
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What is the worst pain you have ever experienced? Did it "make you stronger" as the saying goes?
The worst pain I've experienced was a few years ago, when my boyfriend misinterpreted my xanga entry. It ruined our relationship entirely. I posted about the days events, and how I hung out with someone I hadn't seen since I was two or three, and how he was a great guy and everything. I meant it in a friend way. But it apparently came out as a love interest. Fighting between us ensued, and it was bitter.
This ex and I are still... sorta friends? I don't know if you could call it that, but we talk on occasion. It's not the same anymore, though. That night, the night everything fell about, I felt absolutely shattered. It's a feeling I never wish to experience again.
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It seems that the biggest pain I've ever experienced was also an emotional pain stemming from a relationship.
'Course, I'm not exactly one who experiences a lot of physical pain, so maybe I'm not a good measuring stick to use... but I do think that when we give so much of ourselves to another person and share in that person's life, it opens deep wounds if the relationship ends.
--but then, I don't have much experience there either...
So, take salt as desired.